Getting Started with Therapy

I offer a free 15–20 minute consultation to explore whether working together feels like a good fit. I will ask about your hopes for therapy and I will welcome you to ask me questions that may help you get a sense of whether I can meet your needs. We will also discuss fees (more about this below). If you feel comfortable during the consult and want to go forward with therapy with me, great! I will send you an invitation to the electronic health portal that I use, Sessions Health, along with initial forms that I will ask you to complete. We will schedule an intake session during which I will ask you more about your goals, background, and mental health history. This allows me to get a fuller picture of where you are and where you have been so that I can better support you to get to where you’re going. Following the intake, we will have ongoing sessions and decide together what to focus on, how, and at what pace. If moving forward after the consult doesn’t feel like the best option, that’s also okay and I can support you in identifying other possibilities that may work better for you. To schedule a consultation, I welcome you to fill out the contact form, to email me at thigpen.lcsw@pm.me, or to call me at 215-608-4727.

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Fees

My full fee for sessions is $200 for individuals and $230 for relationships. For rates for intensive sessions, please view the IFS intensives page. Payment is due on the day of session through card in the electronic health portal. I am not in network with any insurance providers; however, some commercial plans will reimburse for a certain percentage of your session cost. If wanted, I will be glad to provide you with a superbill for you to access this. I offer sliding scale spots. If it is possible for you to pay my full fee or closer to the higher end of the sliding scale, I ask that you do so to facilitate access for others for whom that is not possible. Conversely, if you do need a sliding scale fee, please let me know what is possible for you; what I can offer may vary. Existing clients with changes in circumstances are prioritized for sliding scale spots.

In weighing what feels possible for you, I ask that you take the following into account: income and stability of income; savings; access to generational wealth; access to others’ income; social locations such as race, gender, and ability; expenses including bills, debts, and people whom you support financially; assets; and whether you frequently have money to spend on areas outside of necessary expenses.

At times, I offer pro bono or reparation spots. These are prioritized for Black and Indigenous people with financial need. If you are interested in receiving pro bono or reparation-based sessions, please contact me to verify whether these are available.

We will establish a fee during our initial consultation and can return to discussing it as needed over the course of our work together. In most circumstances, you will be charged your session fee if you cancel within 24 hours of a scheduled session; you will NOT be charged if you provide more than 24 hours’ notice.

Please note that I have a fee increase policy where fee-paying clients are asked to increase their fee by $5 to $10 at the start of the calendar year if they have not recently increased their fees.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Yes to both. Short-term work is usually best if you’re wanting to focus on one particular area, experience, or goal, whereas long-term work allows for more breadth and depth in subject matter and in our relationship. If you want to do deep but short-term work, you may want to consider intensive IFS sessions.

  • I aim to be present, warm, and authentic with you. I am ready to hold deep pain with you as well as to collaboratively titrate how often and to what extent we do this. Clients have described me as caring, non-judgmental, and funny.

  • Short answer: I’m happy to co-create a session container with you as we go. Long answer: at the start of the session, I will ask how you’re feeling. Depending on whether you are seeking a specific approach, what you’re wanting to explore together, and on your preferences, I may facilitate you connecting with different parts of your internal system; I may guide you to connect with your experience as you’re sharing with me; we may have a more conversational flow; or a mix of those options. I will center how you feel.

  • It depends on what you need! I am glad to provide guidance and guardrails while continuing to collaborate with you. I am also glad to follow your lead.

  • No, I use approaches that prioritize being in connection with your own experiences, being in relationship with one another, and your own sense of agency. If you specifically want an approach that draws heavily from cognitive behavioral therapy, exposure response prevention, or something similar, I may not be the best fit. That being said, if you are interested in dialectical behavior therapy, I may weave some aspects of it in.

  • I started using IFS in 2019. I completed Level 1 training with the IFS Institute in 2021, Level 2 training in 2023, and Level 3 training in 2025. I have also served as a teaching assistant for nine IFS Foundations Courses for Trans, Non-binary, and Queer Clinicians beginning in 2022. Throughout this time, I have also received regular IFS-focused consultation, taken more specific IFS trainings, and read about IFS. In other words, I feel deeply rooted in IFS and have used it with a wide range of people in many different areas.

  • Yes, absolutely. I have worked with people with all of these experiences and will be glad to explore what attuned and appropriate care for you would be.

  • Yes. As long as I am competent in supporting the work you’re wanting to do, we can treat each other with mutual respect, and the logistics of scheduling and fees work out, I’ll be glad to work with you.

  • While therapy through insurance can be more affordable, it can also be more constrained in a variety of ways for both clients and providers. In choosing an out-of-pocket, sliding-scale model, I am prioritizing access for those most marginalized on the lower-cost end of the scale, while also prioritizing your own decision making and agency over your care. This additionally allows me to focus more of my time on direct work with clients rather than on administrative work. I acknowledge that this limits access to therapy with me for some and that ideally, high-quality therapy that truly centers your needs would be freely available for everyone. This is how I am navigating the not-ideal reality of the current system.

  • The cost of therapy covers a lot. In this case, people paying higher fees allow me to sustainably provide lower-cost sessions, ensuring a more equitable fee structure. Beyond this, here is what your payments cover: self-employment and business taxes; licensure fees; business expenses such as an electronic health record; my income and benefits; and expenses that are important for me to provide resourced and competent care, such as trainings and consultation.